Why Men Cheat With Ugly Women


She is going to sleep with your man.

All men are not dogs, and most men will not cheat on their women (or at least half of them will not according to the statistics). However, some men will cheat and when they do, it will be with a woman that is less attractive than their girlfriend of wife. This is not an indictment of wives’ inability to keep their man happy or an assault on marriage. The union of two people in holy matrimony is a beautiful affair (pun completely intended), however extramarital affairs are still fairly common. There are myriad of reasons why men cheat with unattractive women, but the most popular reasons are listed below.


1. He Has Seen It All

“Behind every beautiful woman is a man who is tired of sleeping with her.” The old adage is true. Regardless of how eye-searingly hot any woman is, the man that she has been in a relationship with for a few years knows every physical flaw and emotional insecurity that she has. He knows that she a mole under her left breast that looks like Abraham Lincoln and one under the right one that looks like George Washington. He calls them “presidential” boobs, and they laugh about it together. He knows that she has stretch marks on her hips and a weird obsession with cashews. To him the façade of hotness has worn off. A man who is happy in his relationship is endeared to his woman for all her flaws, but a man who wants out of the relationship is looking for something new. No matter how beautiful a woman is, once a guy knows every inch of a woman’s body and the sex starts to even out, he becomes less interested in her physically. And the unattractive woman in marketing is not pretty, but she has some serious curves that he hasn’t seen. Plus, there is a real draw to the unknown for guys. Men are curious about what they cannot see. He knows that he can sleep with his wife regardless of how gorgeous she is. He knows exactly what her body looks like without her disrobing. But, the ugly chick with the body is mystery.

2. Less Attractive Women Cater To Their Man

A homely woman is usually more attentive to a man’s needs than a pretty woman. These women work harder to attract and keep men, because they are at a deficit in the characteristic that generally grabs the attention of men, physical attractiveness. Aesthetically attractive women are treated better than their average counterparts from their early childhood throughout their lives, so women who are less attractive work harder to keep up. Because you are a cute girl, you are probably accustomed to people catering to you. You bombard your guy with the menial problems of your day the second that he hits the door. Your mom is so selfish. Jane is a slut. Your boss hates you. The ugly chick gives him a hot cooked meal, an attentive ear, a back massage, and a crotch massage when he shows up. She knows that your guy works hard and that he does not want to listen to everything that is wrong in your life the second that he gets home. He has his own problems. You nag him to watch the shows and participate in the events that you prefer. She has ESPN on the television when he hits the door. Where you are self-centered and needy, she is giving and thoughtful. Your man wants to spend time with her.

3. She Has A Great Personality

People think that personalities are overrated, but an amiable and amenable disposition makes a woman more attractive. The ugly woman has spent her life being judged on her behavior and her accomplishments instead of her looks. How she treats people is directly related to her station in life because she could never rely on physical beauty to carry her through life. She has spent time getting to know men and what they like, because sex was not always on the table between her and every guy with whom she was interested. She seems to always be in a good mood, she knows sports, and she can be one of the guys. The ugly chick is just as likely to crack a dirty joke as she is to laugh at one that a guy said. She is just fun to be around.

The first way to a man’s heart.

4. She Can Burn in Kitchen

The ugly girl can cook. And that does not mean she occasionally makes spaghetti and meatballs from a can. No, she cooks a homemade meal every time that your man comes to her house. She has some meat, something starchy, vegetables, and bread on his plate every time he sees her. And, the best women make their own bread from scratch. Ugly girls were home cooking and taking care of their families while their cuter counterparts were out on dates. They know their way around a kitchen.

5. Ugly Girls Are Easier

One of the main reasons that men cheat with an ugly girl is predicated on simple probability. It is a numbers game. Hot girls have more options for a prospective mate than a less attractive woman, so there is less urgency for them to pursue relationships. The longer that a guy is exposed while stepping outside his marriage, the more likely that he will be caught in the act. And, since prettier girls have better suitors than ugly girls, approaching a pretty girl means more work for the man who is pursuing her. The average guy is competing with handsome rich guys, handsome broke guys, other men of average looks and income, average guys with a lot of money, and ugly guys with a lot of money. And while men from all walks of life hit on women of all shapes and sizes, the likelihood of an average woman landing a rich, handsome guy is pretty slim. Your husband or boyfriend only has a small chance of seducing an extremely attractive woman in a short time, but your husband or boyfriend is a viable option for the decidedly bland chick with the huge rack.

6. She Is Better In Bed

When is the last time that you gave your man a hummer just for coming home? When is the last time that you surprised him by pulling him into a public restroom for a quickie? When is the last time that you put your hand in his lap under the dinner table? The ugly girls know the answers to these questions. She is just as excited about sex as your man is. She knows the second way to a man’s heart is through his penis. When a man is overrun with hot sexual encounters, he can not concentrate on anything else. When you are thinking, “Oh, it’s Saturday night, time to eat out,” the ugly girl is thinking “It is Tuesday afternoon, and Randy is coming over. I better get the lube, find some peanut butter, and call that cute dwarf woman we met at the swingers club.” Ladies, it hard to compete with that woman. The ugly woman will do things to him in the bedroom that he never imagined that he would like. She is open to new things, and she tries harder too. Yes, I know that you have never had any complaints in the bedroom, but most pretty women are boring sex partners. The ugly woman does not fall limply onto the bed and wait for the man to finish. She is grinding on him trying to get off too. She is the aggressor in sex, and it is a welcome change for him sexually.


Uglier women are better at just about everything than pretty ones. They are more well-rounded people because they had to work harder to get the same accomplishments, companionship, and simple life skills as their more attractive counterparts. Guys were not knocking down their doors for dates, so they concentrated on bettering themselves through school, sports, and culinary arts. The ugly girl is every woman’s worst nightmare, and if any woman is not taking care of her man, then an unattractive woman will take care of him for her.


18 comments for “Why Men Cheat With Ugly Women

  1. January 24, 2013 at 8:43 AM

    WHAT THE HELL IS AN UGLY GIRL? CAN somebody explain that to me? Unless there is a physical deformity, there is no such thing as an ugly girl. What I want to know is what the hell does the original poster look like? I can tell that you ain’t no Brad Pitt. SInce we are talking about ugliness by his definition, why is it that it is always the “UGLIEST “men that want the hottest women?

  2. January 25, 2013 at 1:08 AM

    You see, the big counter-balancing effect going on here is affection and attention. Oh, yes…you ALL know what I am talking about, “Mista, you so hansum!” or “I take care you good!” or “I love you too much!” and other similar comments heard all day and night long as even the lowliest farang roams even within 200 feet of any major adult nightlife area. It seems that many of these ugly and/or Isaan girls (as other readers have stated) seem to just want to work harder to convince a man that she ‘loves’ him, and I use that term very loosely.

  3. January 26, 2013 at 12:51 PM

    I shot down the “critism” because it is very wrong and stupid and you know it because you are a man and shallow like the rest of them! Look who is talking. I can marry an ugly man. Could you marry an ugly girl? I do not think so! Not marry, Would you even want to get to know an ugly girl? No you would not! so that is the reason why I will keep shooting down your nonsense. Men like you cannot live without beauty. Even if you do get married to an ugly woman you would be a cheating husband, because you are the shallow one, not me darling and you are the one who needs checking.

  4. Janette
    January 29, 2013 at 6:18 AM

    If most men dig down deep and think about what they are looking for in a woman its normally 2 things:1) she is not overtly obese and not extremely unattractive. its shallow sure, but the obese thing is a lot of times a dealbreaker2) she wont be a stuck up princesswill women who fit into either of those catagories (or believe it or not, both……it does happen and thats how society tries to teach us is correct nowdays) be able to find the average type of guy? yeah but normally not for long, especially on the second one (if the guy doesnt really mind on the first)keep in mind this isnt talking about every guy out there, but in my experience it is a pretty good estimation of what guys ultimately care about in a woman. me personally, the “ugly” part isnt a huge deal as long as a girl isnt obese (which to me is a sign of laziness). it sounds funny saying it, but you cant cure ugly. everything else about yourself you can change in some manner.

  5. Sophieal
    June 29, 2016 at 3:39 PM

    This article is written by a shallow, narrow-minded person who blindly follows the definition of superficial and unachievable traditional beauty standards. There is no such thing as an ugly girl! It all depends upon your perception. Moreover, this type of writing perpetuates harmful stereotypes!I’m very disappointed.

    • AFM
      June 29, 2016 at 11:28 PM

      Spoken like an ugly girl. There were plenty of sexist and possibly some misogynistic statements in there, but nothing that should be taken as narrow-minded. And, the “traditional beauty standards” are the actual existing standards of beauty. So, if you are disappointed by an article about ugly women, then you may be one of them.

  6. Si chocolate Dominicana
    September 17, 2016 at 12:43 AM

    That explains why ugly girls feel intimidated by me because I’m pretty I cook I have great personality matter of fact im underestimating my self im drop dead gorgeous a great body great sex good convo healthy very well spoken educated in let aan be the man able body great with kids and I cook in heels and lingerie no stretch marks no presidential breast hygiene is great and attitude is great as long as u are respectful now I’m not perfect but I do believe in trying best

    • AFM
      September 17, 2016 at 9:17 AM

      So, no commas or periods at all, huh? Were you trying to see how many words you could string together without taking a break or just testing my readers’ basic comprehension of full thoughts? You are going to need those looks, culinary skills, and bedroom skills with your apparent hatred of basic punctuation.

  7. Si chocolate Dominicana
    September 17, 2016 at 12:45 AM

    They feel intimidated because pretty with the same skills they got in the bedroom and the kitchen and I’m fine ass hell

  8. mia
    November 29, 2016 at 11:09 AM

    Reading this made me realise I haven’t done anything wrong to be cheated on. I’m decent looking ( got attractive after first kid ), I cook home made meals from scratch, clean, take care of the kid and don’t nag..and yet it happened to me. I don’t think this guy is wrong he is just being honest actually but what about the chicks who didn’t grow up attractive and just got that way after they grew up? Is it the guy just being insecure or still the woman’s fault if she did the right things?

    • AFM
      November 29, 2016 at 7:28 PM

      Someone cheating on you is never your fault. Sleeping with someone outside your relationship is a decision. The article is really just saying that a lot of women either stop caring for their partners after a while or they forget to do the little things that attracted their man to them in the first place. That leaves an opportunity for a guy to start to start looking around. Your guy found you attractive before you had kids and before you thought you were attractive. If he cheated, then do not mistake it for something that you did. Even if you neglected him or demeaned him, he could have left without cheating.

  9. Anon
    December 9, 2016 at 5:26 AM

    Having read this piece, it’s greatly helped me to view the act of cheating from a different perspective.

    Although I am in agreement with some of the points, there is one point I would like to make from personal experience. Throughout my teenage years, I was incredibly unattractive (bad teeth, frizzy hair etc.) and there was zero interest from males. I admit that I naturally focused on my personality through my childhood years. However, now in my early 20′s my physical appearance has naturally changed and I’m aware of the male attention and continuous compliments from other females/strangers. Despite this, mentally I’m still the bad teeth, frizzy hair girl and therefore, though others sometimes view me as attractive, I don’t see it myself. The point I’m making is, pretty girls are often viewed upon first as being mean, having zero personality or being hard work to catch. However, I think this is so frustrating as attractive women don’t necessarily always know they are and therefore may have a fab personality, be good company, lack confidence etc.

    It may be a controversial opinion, but I do believe that conventionally unattractive females are more likely to attract males into a relationship, which links to your points within your piece as to why this is. I personally think attractive females have a much harder time because of the first-judgements made about how they look. However, with unattractive females, men are willing to get to know the real her and aren’t just looking at the surface.

    I realise my post appears quite deep and shallow too of course, however I just wanted to highlight the whole don’t judge a book based by it’s cover in relation to this article.

    • AFM
      December 9, 2016 at 12:00 PM

      Wow, that was a really thoughtful and insightful comment. You seem to have a unique perspective on attraction and how it relates to traditional aesthetic beauty and unconventional beauty. And, personality does trump good looks, so a lot of those unconventionally attractive women may get more attention than the physically beautiful ones. Quite a few phenomenal looking women can not get dates because they are not approached, but the women whose looks are slightly above average end up married. And to your point, perception is reality and since guys think that a lot of pretty women are aloof or mean, they fail to talk to them.

      • Anon
        December 13, 2016 at 4:42 PM

        Thank you for your response – I appreciate your insight.

        I have to agree that my perspective on attraction is unique. I seriously need to stop placing such a major emphasis on my looks when trying to attract a man and just simply realise that at the end of the day, clicking personalities with someone else is what matters.

        Perception is reality indeed.

        • AFM
          December 13, 2016 at 6:59 PM

          Well, do not underestimate the power of physical attraction. People see you before they get to know you. However, the most important part of attraction really is personality.

  10. randomguy
    January 7, 2017 at 8:34 PM

    Some one actually says the girl in the first picture is ugly? Bullshit! You have never seen a girl without make up? I would say she’s pretty or at least a normal in a natural way. Regards, just a regular 17-years old boy.

  11. Cohen
    July 20, 2017 at 7:12 PM

    Ugly women are willing to do everything and anything for a man. the problem with that is that they will be dumped just like the women before cause men will become tired of them and will want something new to play with. In reality the man will only use the ugly women for his needs and will still stay with his attractive girl. The sad part is that Some ugly women will start to believe that they got it like that and many will see her as a pathetic loser. I have heard it from all my brothers, guy friends and guy cousins. The truth is men can be shallow and the last thing they want is to end up with an ugly bitch that many will ask wtf is wrong with you??!! Trust me no man especially a cheater will want to be seen with an ugly used up women who probably has a sexually transmitted disease. Plus cheaters will think that if she slept with him knowing he has a women, then she probably Does it all the time, not a trust worthy women. If a man leaves his women for the ugly one, it only means he was trying to find a way out of that relationship, and soon enough he will also leave the ugly bitch, not unless she has money. ugly women who behave like that are nothing but fucked up assholes who know they ain’t got a chance with a good man, so they go around looking for other women’s men cause they are jealous. Trust me dirty douch bag men go to bars near closing to find a drunk sloppy beauty, or ugly one just like the ugly ass women do. Yuck ugly on the inside ugly on the outside. I have heard many horror stories from my guy friends about their run ins with ugly whores. Trust me the men that stay with fugly always regret it. Cause they are not only ugly on the outside but are tremendously ugly on the inside with their insecure, mean, jealous, unnatractive, personalities and conniving ways.

    • AFM
      July 20, 2017 at 7:55 PM

      Tell us how you really feel.

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